Our vision: "Every ELCA congregation in the Southwestern Conference will collaborate together to benefit our youth, sharing knowledge and resources, using best practices."
Monday, July 30, 2012
Be the change
Today's guest blog is by Tara Eastman, the Youth & Family Director at First Lutheran Church in Jamestown, NY.
First things first, we (local youth and adults who attended the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering) would like to thank our home churches and community for the financial and prayer support that helped get us to and carried us throughout our trip to New Orleans from July 18-23.
For five fast-paced days we were at the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America's Youth Gathering in New Orleans, LA. During our time there, we practiced peacemaking, justice and Christian discipleship. We we challenged by the human struggles still being dealt with by the people of New Orleans, were excited to hear church and world leaders like Bishop Hanson, Pastor Nadia Bolz-Weber and Shane Claiborne speak and dance and sing with the many amazing musicians that performed at the Super Dome.
In the Convention Center we were challenged to seek out ways to peace in our communities, schools, families and churches by learning more ways to serve others. We shared wonderful meals and southern hospitality together, walked many miles in the Louisiana rain, sun and heat, and learned how to navigate the trolley system when our feet needed a rest.
On our service day, we learned more about the long-lasting effects of slavery and were asked to use our cultural and economic privileges to help those who have less power.
The trip was a whirlwind of activity that was taken in by our local CALY group: Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth. Our group included 16 people from five different Lutheran Churches in our county: Bethel, Immanuel, Holy Trinity, St. Timothy and First Lutheran.
These are the people in our group that witnessed the sights, sounds, and story of New Orleans and the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering: Julie Bihler, Darcy Whitney, Ian Eastman, Tara Eastman, T.J. Bihler, Bradley Bihler, Nathan Saar, Sophie White, Emily Whitney, Kirsten Magnuson, Emily Magnuson, Caylee Shelters, Nigel Eastman, Jeremy Hatfield, Sean Kilmartin and Danielle Guichard.
The stories from this experience are just starting to settle. Please ask about how we saw Jesus during this trip - we'd love to tell you all about it!
A song we learned in worship this last week went like this, "I want my life, to make a difference. I want my life to make a change." May the words of this song, our experience in New Orleans and our faith in God help us to make a difference in our lifetime. May theses things help us to remember God's purpose and call to serve others. Help us to be the change we want and need to see - everywhere we go.
Tara Eastman is the Youth & Family Director at First Lutheran Church in Jamestown. She is a contributing writer to Connect, a new curriculum that helps preteens connect individual Bible stories with larger biblical themes, published by Sparkhouse (a division of Augsburg Fortress).
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
The Best Family Summer Ever: Ideas to Help Families Connect Before Summer Slips Away | StickyFaith.org
Summer can be an incredible time for families to connect, but opportunities can fly by without intentional planning. Rhett Smith, a licensed marriage and family therapist, has some steps to help you get started:
- Communicate expectations
- Create a rhythm of downtime and activity
- Connect by disconnecting
Check out the article at this link.
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Thriving Families
The Search Institute recently compiled a list of Family Assets based on research from The American Family Assets Study. The Family Assets demonstrate “ways adults and young people pull together to support and bring out the best in one another.” When more assets are part of the fabric of family life, the more likely it is that parents and kids:
- “have higher satisfaction with their families and with their lives”
- “take better care of their health”
- “contribute more to their communities”
The average family experiences less than half of these assets. How does your family compare? This would be a wonderful dinnertime conversation. Here’s the list:
FAMILY ASSETS
Nurturing Relationships
- Positive communication—Family members listen attentively and speak in respectful ways.
- Affection—Family members regularly show warmth to each other.
- Emotional openness—Family members can be themselves and are comfortable sharing their feelings.
- Support for sparks—Family members encourage each other in pursuing their talents and interests.
Establishing Routines
- Family meals—Family members eat meals together most days in a typical week.
- Shared activities—Family members regularly spend time doing everyday activities together.
- Meaningful traditions—Holidays, rituals, and celebrations are part of family life.
- Dependability—Family members know what to expect from one another day-to-day.
Maintaining Expectations
- Openness about tough topics—Family members openly discuss sensitive issues, such as sex and substance use.
- Fair rules—Family rules and consequences are reasonable.
- Defined boundaries—The family sets limits on what young people can do and how they spend their time.
- Clear expectations—The family openly articulates its expectations for young people.
- Contributions to family—Family members help meet each other’s needs and share in getting things done.
Adapting to Challenges
- Management of daily commitments—Family members effectively navigate competing activities and expectations at home, school, and work.
- Adaptability—The family adapts well when faced with changes.
- Problem solving—Family members work together to solve problems and deal with challenges.
- Democratic decision making—Family members have a say in decisions that affect the family.
Connecting to Community
- Neighborhood cohesion—Neighbors look out for one another.
- Relationships with others—Family members feel close to teachers, coaches, and others in the community.
- Enriching activities—Family members participate in programs and activities that deepen their lives.
- Supportive resources—Family members have people and places in the community they can turn to for help.
Search Institute’s Parent Further website has very helpful insights for parents seeking to foster these qualities in their family. It is well worth a visit.
Ian Eastman, M.A. promotes the spiritual, social, and emotional development of young people and their families. He is the Conference Youth Coordinator for the Southwestern New York Conference of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, the Coordinator of the Shared Lutheran Youth Ministry in Jamestown NY, and a Youth Minister in the Pastoral Care Department at Gustavus Adolphus Family Services. He is a graduate of SUNY Empire State College (B.S. Cultural Studies), Northwest Nazarene University (M.A. Spiritual Formation), and is currently a student at the Institute for Youth Ministry at Princeton Theological Seminary. A published writer, his work has appeared in Good News, The Ooze, Parental Guidance Magazine, The Times Observer, The Wittenburg Door and YS Magazine.
Monday, July 23, 2012
Pray for CALY - Monday
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth (CALY) from throughout the Southwestern Conference will be in New Orleans this week for the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering. Please pray for the CALY team everyday this week as they grow in faith together!
Prayer for Monday, July 23
Pray for the CALY team as they travel home from New Orleans and for a gentle and graceful re-entry into the week ahead.
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Closing worship - Sunday
It is hard to believe that our time in New Orleans is nearly at its end. We began the day with worship at the Superdome. We heard an message by Bishop Hanson and celebrated communion with approximately 40,000 participants! It was very inspiring!
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Pray for CALY - Sunday
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth (CALY) from throughout the Southwestern Conference will be in New Orleans this week for the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering. Please pray for the CALY team everyday this week as they grow in faith together!
Prayer for Sunday, July 22
Pray for the CALY Team that they would hear what God is speaking into their lives through this experience.
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Practice Justice - Saturday
Today was "Practice Justice" day at the Youth Gathering. We met at the Mercedes-Benz Superdome to learn about what it means to make a difference in the everyday lives of people. Then we had a cultural immersion experience in New Orleans where we experienced local drama, dance, and music and discussed privilege and inequality. We learned how we understand life (and God) through our own culture first. Maturity includes respecting other ways of life as valuable.
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Pray for CALY - Saturday
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth (CALY) from throughout the Southwestern Conference will be in New Orleans this week for the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering. Please pray for the CALY team everyday this week as they grow in faith together!
Prayer for Saturday, July 21
Pray for the CALY team mentally. Pray for openness to what they are learning about God, others and the world. Pray for discernment as they reflect upon all that God is revealing. Pray for the CALY team to let go and give their work into God’s hands as they realize what more could be done.
Please leave a comment on this post to let the young people know that you’re praying for them!
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Friday, July 20, 2012
Practice Peacemaking - Friday
Today was "Practice Peacemaking" day at the Youth Gathering. The convention center became a space for interactive learning. We reflected on God’s value for everyone, particularly those who are marginalized by society; and discerned how we can participate in the church’s efforts to express this love and actually practice peacemaking.
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
Pray for CALY - Friday
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth (CALY) from throughout the Southwestern Conference will be in New Orleans this week for the 2012 ELCA Youth Gathering. Please pray for the CALY team everyday this week as they grow in faith together!
Prayer for Friday, July 20
Pray for the CALY team physically. Pray for strength and stamina, health and safety. Pray for their sore muscles and aches. Pray for those who prepare their food and pray for restful sleep.
Chautauqua Area Lutheran Youth gratefully acknowledges the support of the Karl Peterson Funds & Lynn Foundation Fund of the Chautauqua Region Community Foundation in making this project a reality.
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